Vincent Clohessy - Couples Relationship Counselling

5.03 July 2026

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We went from ready to give up to having a future together Our relationship was toxic, hard work, and strained. We were arguing over things we didn't actually know what we were arguing about, and we were both wanting to be right. We were ready to give up. What became clear was that we both needed to start listening and start showing empathy for the other person. All of it helped us as a couple. We listen more now (still have work to do). Our communication is calmer and we have more quality time together. Most importantly, we've gone from being ready to give up to having a future. We need to work hard for it, but it's possible. If another couple asked us about this work, we'd tell them to absolutely go for it and have an open mind and take every bit of advice and help given by Vincent. We've rated this 10 out of 10 for recommending.

5.015 December 2025

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Very reliable & easy to communicate with to arrange appointments Really try’s to understand your background and details around your situation before advising Focuses on positive strategies to help you overcome problem areas

5.027 December 2025

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We came to Vincent during what genuinely felt like a make-or-break moment in our relationship, and I don’t think I can fully put into words how grateful I am that we found him. Throughout our time working together, Vincent guided us through all the areas where I had concerns — communication, conflict resolution, intimacy, parenting, and our household dynamic. He helped us learn how to respond rather than react, which has been transformative. I feel noticeably calmer and more at ease, with far less anxiety around potential disagreements, and I feel much more supported by my partner. The sessions encouraged deep self-reflection and pushed me, gently but powerfully, to step outside my comfort zone and really observe my own reactions. I now have a much better understanding of how to communicate my needs and expectations, and I feel equipped with practical tools to handle conflict in a healthy way. I’m also far more able to see things from my partner’s perspective and respond with empathy and understanding. Vincent’s counselling and coaching has been incredibly valuable not only for our relationship, but also for my growth as a parent. His recommendations — including books and the idea of creating a shared “parenting guide” — led to meaningful reflection and lasting changes in how we parent, helping us respond consciously rather than react emotionally. Our communication is stronger, our understanding of each other’s needs is deeper, and because of that, I feel able to love and feel loved much more fully. It truly feels like our relationship has been saved. I’m deeply thankful to Vincent for his guidance and support, and to my partner for being willing to do this work with me. I couldn’t recommend Vincent highly enough.

5.010 September 2026

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Before I started working with Vincent, my relationship was strained and there was a lack of trust and understanding between us. The counselling helped me understand the need to talk rationally, take more time to think about the situation at hand, and listen to what my partner has to say rather than allowing petty things to escalate into arguments. I now feel more able to rationalise situations and discuss both sides rather than just seeing things from my own point of view. Working with Vincent helped me understand my own thoughts better and process what others have to say. The answers are always within you but I couldn’t see them myself and Vincent will guide you to those answers. I would definitely recommend Vincent to other couples. Take the time, listen to each other, and be open and honest about how you feel. Overall, the experience has been excellent.

5.012 January 2026

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Working with Vincent has genuinely been life-changing for both me and my relationship. Before counselling, I struggled to speak my mind and often bottled things up. Through Vincent’s guidance, I gained the confidence to communicate openly, calmly, and honestly — not just with my partner, but in everyday life. Vincent provided practical tools, insightful resources, and powerful exercises that helped build real understanding and connection in our relationship. I felt respected, validated, and truly listened to throughout the entire process. We explored everything we came to counselling for and left with clear strategies and communication skills that we will use for life. Both my partner and I have changed significantly for the better, and we now feel strong, aligned, and confident about our future together. I would wholeheartedly recommend Vincent to anyone seeking meaningful change and a healthier, more connected relationship.