Let me start by saying that I'm an attractive, intelligent, confident, successful guy who enjoys the usual things such as clubs, bars, good holidays, nice restaurants etc who also gets a fair amount of attention from women but it's never really what I'm looking for. I'm good fun, outgoing, good company and loyal and protective to those who are close to me. I also like to make sure that a girl is looked after, spoiled and, like me, gets to enjoy the finer things in life if she deserves it.

That said, I'm looking for a girl who's genuinely submissive in nature. You don't need to be experienced but certainly need to at least have a feeling inside that you can only be completely fulfilled if you're being dominated and taken care of by a confident, secure and strong but caring man. You want to experience the unbelievable relief of having all responsibility taken away from you so that you're truly free to celebrate and be who you really are. You long to be understood and appreciated by someone who will take you by the hand and lead you, so that you can enjoy the exhilirating sensation of freedom that comes from letting go.

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for someone who goes to bondage parties and hangs around with freaks in gimp masks, just someone who knows they prefer to be dominated by a strong man and wants to find someone capable of doing that. Someone who's fed up with limp wristed metrosexuals who can't make a decision to save their lives and feel it neccessary to ask if it's ok to kiss you rather than just getting on and doing it. In other words someone normal but who may sometimes feel conflicted by society's perception of what a modern woman should want and your own desire to have a man grab you by the hair, pull you roughly to the bed and do as he pleases with you. Perhaps you're drawn to the idea of being dominated but in todays world of sexual equality and feminism you find yourself suppressing these feelings for fear of letting the side down and so try to appear strong and happy to be in control when, in fact, deep down, you're not and long for someone else to take the lead and own you. It's possible that you've suppressed your submissive side but your desire to please has resulted in you becoming everyone's problem solver when truthfully you want the opposite and for somebody else to take control for once. Maybe you also know that you can be a handful at times but long for someone to stand up to you, take you in hand and put you in your place when you've overstepped the mark. You want to please but need to be shown and told how rather than have the headache of trying to figure it out.

I'm happy to be patient and slowly guide you if you have no experience as long as you're truly genuine and believe that this is what you need and would like to explore more deeply.

Hopefully you're also attractive, good company, curious and maybe even a little cheeky but you could equally be shy and withdrawn sometimes and so somehow feel disconnected from others around you at times, almost as if you're a spectator and not a participant. Perhaps you occasionally feel a little lost and vulnerable and long to have someone strong to hide behind every now and then who will protect you and make you feel safe. You may even have a wicked, dark and sometimes twisted sense of humour that you're reluctant to express openly for fear of what others might think.

If you're genuine and this sounds like you and are looking for someone to take you under his wing or are just curious and confused and want to try and find some direction then get in touch and tell me more about yourself and we'll take things slowly from there and see how we get on.

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