Ok, if you want her, you have to back off- it really sounds like inyour panic of losing her you have become the smothering, wet guy.

Back off and stop calling her- force her to call you. If she asks why- tell her that you need some space for the moment. You have been living your life for her recently and you need to focus on yourself for a bit.

In all honesty it sounds like you may have left it a bit late to do this, but if you're going to lose her anyway, give this ago.

Women are complicated creatures, if we are too nice, we lose them as we don't give them enough of a challenge- you need to keep her on her toes, make her feel like she has to work constantly to earn your love. To be fair though- it seems to be a pretty good tactic for them to do to us though!

John Smith

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