Hello,

Well here goes, I'm pretty new to whole posting thing and I suspect it kinda leaves me exposed to accusations of desperation or being strange but I'm just a relaxed guy who enjoys meeting new people. I'm pretty open minded and always takes people on face value. I'm pretty down to earth with a very black sense of humour. As for the basics, I'm 32, asian, 5'11 and keep myself fit.

During the day, at work and with friends I'm the quiet and dependable one but as the proverb goes, still waters run deep which has lead me to here. Lately I've become more and more intrigued by the idea of being the dominant one in a dom sub relationship. I'm equally attracted to idea of being the one in total control but also by idea of someone placing complete trust in me. Besides I have always found using the odd handcuff and blindfold now and then very pleasurable.

I admit I have not been able to turn my musings into reality but I've already decided that the so called "scene" is not for me. This is a private journey for me plus I'm not really one for leather.

I'm hoping to meet a like minded female who has always attracted to being submissive. Maybe in your professional life you are a feisty, take charge type of girl who looks great in a business suit but you secretly long to relinquish that control to someone in your personal life.

As this is a new experience for me, I would prefer to meet someone who is new to the this world, maybe you have dipped your toe into this world and still unsure if it is for you. I definitely would like to put my own spin on this, I don't want to be called Master as that just reminds me of Igor in those old horror films.

The first meet will be somewhere very public, maybe a gallery or a museum. You will be dressed for work, very professional and demure on the surface.

Anyway this is fast heading towards becoming more of an essay rather than an ad, so I'll stop right here.

If I have stirred a little thought at the back of your mind, drop me a line. Maybe we can start to explore something new to both of us.

SJ

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