Ok so i originally wrote

Ok so ive been dating this guy for almost 3 weeks and we've gone out 4times, today being the 4th, the dates are always so-so, nothing exciting or boring. The guy is nice and all but i just dont feel a thing, at first i thought attraction is not always instant and that sometimes its builds gradually and thats the attitude i took to this guy because he so isnt my type but almost 3weeks in and i still do not feel a thing. We had sex today and although he gives great oral, the sex is so-so as well with him liking things a bit kinky which i dont. I'm in my early 20s and he's in his late 30s, been married before with a kid. Maybe the difference in interest is the problem? I don't know but he has already started making plans for us for months to come and i just do not know how to tell me that im not feeling him or this dating thing we got going on.

Well i got a few responses which are helpful but i wanna follow up on a reply i got, quoted

"Well, if you dont like experimenting and going mad during sex then you are just fuck boring. Cant say anything abut the dates, but how can you say the sex is so so when you just want boring missionary sex? THAT part of the problem is you."

lol im gonna guess and say the sender is a man. well im not a woman that just lays on her back and expect the man to do all the job, i like sex, a lot and i like to get active myself but i dont like when a man starts acting like we're in a porn movie, coming over my breast and trying to lick my arse hole....no no no....is the sex problem still me? Plus i just didnt feel anything during penetration, i mean not that he was lacking, his technique just wanna up to par i guess.

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