Part one
This really happen and it is in two parts look at the second part to know what happend.


Honesty.
Men can they not handle an honest approach? Why does it always have to be about games...?

This took place some time ago just a few months after my boyfriend split up with me. After sobbing and do the usual crying and oh poor me; I realized there was nothing I could do and had to get on with it.
The fattest way to mend a broken heart is to go out with your friend and have fun. Keep your mind occupied right? So I did. My friends were amazing and we regularly went to pubs and gigs.
On one of those outings i meet a handsome base player from a local band who knew a cuple ofmy friends and who i happen to have seen a couple of years before, and remembered back them I thought... mmm he has skills onthe base and also interesting eyes!, nothing more as i had a boyfriend at the time.
This time i was properly introduced to him and we chatted, i happen to see him again and again and again and again we cross short conversations, hellos and byes.
Finally one night we some how had a longer than usual conversation and what do you know we kind of talked for ages, the conversation just wet easily and with an interesting flow. At the end of the night he easked me for my number and if i would like to have a drink with him... wow i though as this guy was to me = (the sort of guy who only liked blond rock chicks not a little 26 year old brunette size 10-12 hardly a model) he could not ask me. Then again he seen sincere and humble nothing like people would think he was; there was a slight confusion in my head, did he really just asked me out for a drink nah, but he did....
I said, yes sure thing, but i was away on business for 2 weeks as of Monday. So I explained and promise I would txt him on my return. He said fantastic and explained his phone was broken as I saw it before my eyes as he admitted to be embarrassed by the old phone. It is ok I said I will txt you and let you know. And I did; I was honest I even txt him good luck for his gig and did not think anything of it when I didn’t get a reply, he seems honest and clear and I thought we would talk soon....
But... time went by and He never retuned my texts, not the one for the gig or the one telling him HI Hey I am back from my work trip..... so I thought ok I get the message, then a friend of mine told me how he told a few of them he actually liked me but was not sure about calling me.
So I called him, spoke to him for ages and it all seemed fine he explained how he had no phone still and how he had been incredibly busy with band rehearsals (typical musicians, but did not bother me) He also said that he wanted to call but again how he was busy on band commitments and so on, I understood perfectly and thought ok someone who can relate to me as I too was incredibly busy with work. So he agreed to call me.
Call never materialized............ my insecurities started to come back, how could I think someone like that would like me, come on my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me obviously there was something wrong with me. Sugar how in hell did I let this get through my head, fact was it did get to my head coz I did like him.
I thought I was stupid for thinking he could like me and even more stupid for believing people saying he did so, I felt bad silly and rejected.
I decided not to contact him again as it was clear he was not interested.
Weeks went by.... I was had all those reasons in my head obviously I was not good enough nice enough I became more insecure

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