I am an ordinary-looking, middle-aged white male looking for a genuine ongoing female-led relationship. I am intelligent, caring, tactile, feeling... bit of a softie, a togetherness kind of person. Non-smoker, non-drugs, non-drinker. I'm looking for friendship and love and affection – with a special lady who will take charge and be the centre of my universe.

I like most of the usual social and togetherness things - company and sharing with each other, films, restaurants, walks in parks and the great outdoors, feeding squirrels, curling up on the sofa together, going to places I haven't been before, spirituality and personal development. My own personal interests include science fiction and hobby games. I could probably be regarded as a bit unconventional, but hopefully in a nice way!

But... I also prefer to be sexually submissive. So I would like our routines to involve giving massage, petting and pampering, providing foot rubs and pedicures, waiting upon you, doing the chores, jumping when you say jump...

I would like to find a friend and companion and lover to share with. But with a lady who wants to be the one in charge and who rules the house, ideally with someone wise and loving enough to make decisions which fulfil us and which nurture and support our relationship.

Sexually, my favourite activity is giving orally, so if receiving such attention is your thing then that's going to help make us compatible! I have an interest in male chastity control, and I'd prefer that you take charge of my orgasms dependant upon my obedience and service to you. Your own pleasure of course should be attended to whenever you desire.

I'm also a partial cross-dresser, more of a gender-bender than a full transvestite. So you'll always have someone happy to look at female clothing when out shopping together! Female clothing somehow seems to make me softer and more submissive.

I am NOT looking or this to be all about sinister sadomasochism! I'm seeking a loving relationship, but with a lady who is assertive and who is happy with a bit of kink and fetish in her life herself. I recognise though that there are times when I need and deserve discipline in my life, so I am open and accepting of you controlling both the carrot and the stick.

If none of the above description has put you off, I'm looking for a companion, buddy, partner, best mate, goddess…. someone to share life with and be together with, and I’d be very happy to hear from you.

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