I have been married for a little over a year although we have been together for nearly 7 years. Last night she tells me that s*x is not enjoyable for her, and never has been with any partner.

That’s some kind of bomb-shell to drop, right? All kinds of stuff start to go through my head…

I immediately blame myself. I know she can’t org*sm by penetration alone (nothing unusual about that) so I obviously haven’t been giving her enough attention with my tongue and fingers. And when I do, has she been faking it? She assures me not.

Next, I blame a certain previous lover of hers for treating her the way he did. It seems to have had a long-term effect. If I ever catch up with him…!

Then I start thinking about our future and the implications this news may have. I’m only 33 – I have a lot left to give. I love her, no question. But her intentions were clear. I have to ask myself ‘do I want a s*xless marriage?’ No I do not! I know s*x isn’t everything but you can be sure I’ll start missing it pretty soon if I’m not getting it!

I know I’m wrong to think about having an affair. But how hard can it be? Everyone else is at it you believe everything you read.

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