We meet in a stylish bar, where the lighting is interesting and the music low, and it's not too busy and we can talk and get to know one another. After a couple of hours our initial attraction to the photos we sent has grown into something tangible; we've flirted, laughed, feel a little typsy, and we're ready to exchange a first lingering kiss.

Normally at this point we would probably go our separate ways, send a few suggestive text messages, and arrange to meet a week later - by which time we'll have both probably got bored of the anticipation, sneaked our eyes over a few more postings, and started chatting with others. If we do meet, at the back of our minds is the thought that there's someone else out there, they might just be better. We all know they're not, and that probably the above pattern will just keep repeating itself. And we end up frustrated and dissapointed.

Well, let's go back to the point where we're ready to exchange a first lingering kiss. Instead of going our separate ways, we head off for some privacy. We exchange that kiss, its warm, sensual, delicate, and our hands start to explore each other's bodies; soon desire builds up, and we're now running our hands over naked flesh, our eyes watching each other as we soon find our bodies embraced and we're making love, and the release is overwhelming... And we meet again, and it just gets better. There's no label, just the mature realisation that we are enjoying something very passionate whilst it lasts - and if it keeps on lasting all the better! If not, we walk away with smiles on our lips...

If we're all honest we each other I think we'd agree that the second scenario is much more preferable than the first, and yet, we're all too caught up in ego and fear or rejection etc to even contemplate it. So we waste our valuable time in this game of cat and mouse, where no one ever wins. What I'm suggesting is that if we like what we see in the photo, if we can spend a couple of hours enjoying each other's company, then why not reward ourselves with the ultimate pleasure that we were seeking in the first place.

This isn't an invitation for just anyone to try their luck! Ideally you'll be attractive, uncomplicated, and confidant. Of course like all men a good figure and a bit of style is great...

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