Hi there,

I have been single and preoccupied with my career for several years now, and I am beginning to think that perhaps it’s time I started focusing on life outside work. I am posting this ad in the hope that I get the chance to meet someone who could give me a new perspective in my life - someone who could be a window which gives me a new, fresh view on what’s out there.

A little bit about me:

# I’m a 37 year old male, oriental by descent. There’s nothing special about the way I look.
# I work in the City and I tend to work long hours.
# I am not the physically active type. In my spare time, I go to the cinemas, read books, listen to music, and dabble in PC games.
# I don’t drink much, but I do smoke and I do eat red meat. I like dining out and I do that a lot.
# I am solitary, as opposed to gregarious. I’m a very private person and there are few people I regard as true friends.
# I can be discreet and considerate where needs be, but first and foremost, I am honest, frank, and direct. Diligence, integrity, and honour are traits in people I value highly - more so than confidence or intelligence at times.
# I respect religion as a way of life and I respect political and other believes, but I do not myself subscribe to any religion or political belief.

I would ideally like to meet someone who:

# is single and has no kids.
# is in her 30s, or late 20s (i.e. 27-39).
# lives in London.
# enjoys dining out and going to the cinemas.
# is not a vegetarian.
# is honest and direct, but knows the meaning of discretion.
# has a proper job (i.e. is financially independent) and takes pride in what she does.
# values privacy and personal space even in a close relationship.
# understands the importance of reciprocity in a relationship.
# is independent and open-minded, and has a balanced view on things.
# has an appreciation for the finer things in life but is prudent and not blinded by wealth or brand.

I am not desperate for a serious relationship but I am looking for someone genuine who is prepared to build a long-term relationship, so to start with, I am looking for someone who could be my friend - someone who does not come with any agenda. If this then leads to something more than a friendship, that would be great, otherwise we could perhaps stay as friend, and if things don’t go well, I would like to part on good terms.

Do you think we could work something out? If so, get in touch - perhaps we can start by exchanging e-mails and then see where that takes us.

With best wishes,

P.O.

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