this is part two
of a true story look at part one if you want to know what happend


Months went by. Is incredible how something like that can affect people. I got totally wrapped up in something so small it was not jut this base player not returning my texts ever also how I felt there was something wrong with me as my ex did the same, the base player incident tricked a bigger process inside me I really thought to myself I was ugly fat and guys did not like me at all. That even though my friends kept telling me I was been silly. And even other guys tried to approach me. But by that point I was totally convinced I was the ugliest most unlikable human on earth
I saw none of it was convinced I was unlikable...
Finally after a few dark months I woke up and told myself what the hell if they don’t like me is their problem I am not going to feel bad I am going to get out there I really smile to the world again. And I did started yoga and dancing and in no time with my friends we were having fun again, men were the last of my problems
5/6 months after the incident and almost a year after my boyfriend broke up with me the phone rang.
Hey I heard... it was him, Nope not the base player guy I meet oh no, it was my ex-boyfriend.
How are you he said, ok I replied.... we had a small conversation were he told me what he had been up to and so did I work friends and so on.
My ex asked me out for a drink, then dinner ... after seen him for a few weeks it was clear the friendly approach was more than friendly intentions.
One night after the cinema and dinner he said why did we break up? You broke up with me I replied.
The feelings of rejection came back to my heart as I reminisced him saying it’s over and then trying to get over it then thinking someone else could like me and never having a call or txt back even when I honestly called and opened up with no games nor dishonest intent.
I though well he seems to like me and so far don’t seem to be many who does so...
There was a silence and he kissed me, (No really that is how it happened)
There was not I am sorry not a let’s try again at that moment, but we did sat down and talked about it, it was a confusing time but a good time apart we agreed we both had grow up and that we could try again for a while and see if the spark was still there, if we could try again a new beginning an new relationship.
That was 6 months ago, we are still together the spark has come back and we are growing stronger.

A few weeks back talking to one of my girlfriends about old times she said to me ... you will not believe this I saw the base player. That guy from the band the base player; he really liked you. He really though you were great he said to me he was going to ask you out, he told several people and he was not sure but he fancied the pants out of you. One night though but one of the guys told him you had a boyfriend.
But I did not, I was single at the time, I could not believe it all that time I felt bad and rejected I even called him he must have thought I was playing around great I had closed myself so much due that experience.... and it was all due miss communication. But then again if that wouldn’t of happen I wouldn’t get back with my boyfriend?
A small twist in events if he would of txt perhaps he would of being the guy with the long hair beside me in the flat and not a button eyes blond I love.

Point is sometimes guys girls are honest this really happen over r the past 2 years, funny how it became to be that me and my boyfriend got to get together again how my mind became more easy going from the experiences or perhaps how not taking chances stopped people from getting together

Thank you for reading my true confection story
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